We drove into Canada yesterday and lost touch with the rest of North America. Our GPS didn’t work, nor did our cell phone or our hot spot, so I have a couple days worth to report tonight. I’m warning you this might be long because we saw a lot!
Ken and Marilyn Judd are the proprietors of Juddhaven, which they run as a bed and breakfast. Ken also works several days a week driving a shuttle bus back and forth from North Bay to the Toronto airport. He was to arrive later, so Marilyn told us we could get dinner at the Marriott Hotel down the road.
By the time, we returned to Juddhaven, Ken was home. We all sat in the living room and talked for several hours about family history and the history of the homestead.
So here’s what I learned last night:
My great-great-grandfather and his family of a wife and eight children arrived in Canada from England with a 200-acre land grant. Normally a family would have been given 100 acres, but this land was not thought to be very good so they received twice as much. Tourists began to show up early, and at first my ancestors boarded them in their home, but soon they built a beautiful hotel that proved to be a successful business. A couple of the sons took over the business. Ken’s parents came to visit one summer and Ken and his siblings enjoyed riding their bicycles up and down the porch in front of the hotel until one of them accidentally broke a window. His uncle got mad and at that point, the family was banned from the hotel, so Ken remembers for the rest of that summer and the next, his family camped in a tent on a rock nearby. He and his siblings remember those two summers with fondness.
Ken’s uncles weren’t as good with business as their father and the hotel was eventually sold to the Catholic church as a retreat center for priests. Then a developer bought it with the idea of tearing it down and building subdivisions. The neighbors hated the idea and fought it, but he got the needed paperwork to begin. Unfortunately for him, but fortunately for the neighbors, he and his wife were killed in a car crash and so the subdivision never happened. However, the hotel later burned to the ground.
The family kept the homestead and Ken’s aunt, a spinster, used it kind of as a summer cottage. In later years, a neighbor called Ken and told him his aunt wasn’t doing well. She had Alzheimers. He and Marilyn came into possession of the house twenty-one years ago and they strongly considered tearing it down because it was in horrible condition. His aunt had let it go. One wall of the foundation had caved in. The beams under the floor were sagging and rotting. There were hundreds of bats living in the attic and there were rodent nests everywhere; every time they opened a cupboard or looked behind something. But Ken wanted to try and revive it. It took them ten years with the help of family and friends just to make it liveable. At that point, they decided that the house needed to pay for itself and they began running it as a B&B.
It has come to the point where the house is costing more money than it’s bringing in. Because it is right on Lake Rosseau, the neighborhood has become touristy and very expensive. Taxes on it are exorbitant. And because the house is so old, it still needs a lot of repairs and maintenance. Ken’s children have no interest in taking over and he doesn’t want to burden them with it when he’s gone, so he has had to come to the painful decision to sell it out of the family for the first time since 1875. He has had it on the market this summer (which is why I thought I’d better see it now if I was going to) and he’s had a couple people express some interest who are willing to keep the house. He doesn’t want to sell it to someone who would tear it down to build their dream home or something. One drawback is that the government owns the beach on the other side of the road. He would have an easier time selling it if he owned the beach front.
After talking late into the evening, Mark and I had a wonderful night of sleep. It was so quiet and peaceful there. This morning we luxuriated in a bath. We have a shower in our RV but whenever we get a chance, we like to take a bath. We packed our things and went downstairs to put them in the truck. Marilyn had created an artistically aesthetic breakfast for us.
At breakfast, Ken and Marilyn were asking us about what we do. Ken loves to travel (having once driven tour buses throughout the US and Canada). Marilyn loves running a B&B, but she’d like to travel some if she could do quilting as well. (A fellow quilter!) We suggested that perhaps they could get an RV and Workamp at B&B’s or hotels that need extra help. Marilyn lit up. We began discussing all the possibilities that might open up for them if they had an RV and it was the first time she had thought of this option. I believe the world opened up for her this morning!
It was sad to leave, but we had Niagara Falls ahead of us.
Rather than crossing the border at Niagara Falls, we went south to enter through Buffalo, NY so we could say we had seen both Lake Ontario and Lake Erie.
“artistically aesthetic breakfast” is an understatement! Marilyn is a fantastic cook! The ham she cook for us was seasoned in a way I’d never had before, it was delicious!!! Crabapple jam and warn buttered toast, it was soooo good!!! Thanks again Marilyn, we’ll plan better next time…..